Nick Sotelo - The Upgraded Life

Career and Lifestyle Coach

Helping You To Realize and Reach Your Potential

Free 30 min Strategy Session

Career Mastery

Your career can become your identity. Find purpose and value in the work that you do, and your quality of life will improve. Most people give 80,000 hours of their life to a job. You have one life, make those 80,000 hours count!

Quality Relationships

Your relationships with other people can be  the key to personal and professional satisfaction. Building quality relationships in your life is a skill that can be learned and developed.  If you feel alone and isolated, a coaching experience with me will help you create a powerful inner vision for yourself that will bring out the best in the people around you. 

The Upgraded Life

You have tremendous potential already within you! I have spent over 20 years working with people to help them REALIZE and REACH their potential. This is the foundation of my approach to coaching. The Upgraded Life is a method for helping create the life they desire and deserve. As your coach I will show you how to UPGRADE your MINDSET, personal MISSION, and daily MOVEMENT. You need to take ACTION, and I will show how to get started and FINISH! 


If you find yourself in a place where a better tomorrow seems impossible, know that there is hope. You can overcome any obstacle in your way, even if you have tried before with limited success. A fulfilling life can be achieved when you develop your personal vision, learn the necessary skills, and execute your plan in a system of support. I have substantial training and the experience necessary to help guide you out of your current situation that seems unbeatable. Trust me, it can be beaten, we can do it together. Let's get to work!

Realize and Reach Your Potential – Personalized Coaching Services by Nick Sotelo, PhD

Create the life you want, by taking the first step in a series of steps.  

Fear and the unknown are things that every person that has ever lived has had to face. Don't let fear and the unknown keep you from creating the life you want any more. You have an amazing legacy to leave for those that you care for and love. The necessary work starts inside yourself and the result is seen in the world around you. Your outer self is a reflection of your inner self. Face your fear, face the unknown – I believe in you and the potential you posses. The first step is just this, click the button below to schedule a 45 min complimentary strategy call. 

How does coaching work?

The Process

When you decide to engage in coaching, I will guide you through a process of self-discovery that will show you what action steps you need to take in order to bring about your specifically chosen goals and outcome. 

Take Action

When you have your daily method of operation in hand, I will be there to support you and your commitment to do the necessary things that will move you closer and closer to your chosen destination.

Support tailored to your needs

The support that  I provide you is tailored to meet your specific needs. I will be there when you need me to be, to make sure you are making progress. You may have felt alone in the past, and that made it hard to keep feeling motivated. I'll be by your side, and will show you how to be your own best source of motivation.

If I can't help you, I won't offer.

Time and money are precious resources. Both will be required in order for you make the changes you want. I promise to only offer to help you, if I believe that I have the knowledge, skills, and connections necessary to help you reach your goals. If I'm not the coach for you, I'll let you know. 

Is Coaching Right For Me?

Coaching is an investment in yourself that is focused on you realizing and reaching your potential. My coaching is based on results. If your needs are not something I can help you with, I'll let you know that right away, and I'll provide you with a referral. A 30 minute strategy call is the first step. This strategy call is on me, and I'll do everything I can to get you pointed in the right direction, even if we don't decide to work together.  I have an awesome referral network to use should you need someone with a different skill set. 

What is coaching?

Coaching is a process where I help you achieve your personally chosen goals and outcomes. I will help you develop personal awareness so that you can realize and reach your potential. 

How do I connect with Nick?

Nick can connect with clients through a voice phone call, a video call through Zoom, emails, and texts. The frequency and format is flexible, and is based on your needs.

How much time does it take?

Each person and their presenting situation is unique. Meeting duration and frequency will be established after our strategy call. A plan will be created specifically for you and will outline the initial work to be done and how long I believe it will take for you to reach your goals. Some clients receive the full benefit after a month, some engage in the process for 6 months or more. My commitment is to always be outcome focused and to do whatever I can to help you benefit from coaching.

Is coaching confidential?

Absolutely! I will never discuss you or your specific situation with anyone, unless I have your explicit permission to do otherwise.  

How much does it cost?

I don't have preset plans with preset prices. I will take the first session that I spend with you to get to know your specific needs, and goals. From that conversation I will generate a coaching proposal that is unique to you, your needs, and your goals. Coaching is an investment in yourself, my fee will be based on your needs, goals, and the time I believe is required to make coaching beneficial for you. Schedule your free 30 min strategy sessions TODAY! 

Why I'm Here

I have spent my life helping people realize and reach their potential in a variety of settings using the combination of my own personal life experience and my formal education in the helping profession. I have been blessed with a heart for people and a skill set for problem-solving. My coaching is focused on helping you understand yourself in new ways that will allow you to know what immediate steps you need to take today, tomorrow, and further in the future.

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